Attitude of Gratitude

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“Your thoughts and feelings come from your past memories. If you think and feel a certain way, you begin to create an attitude. An attitude is a cycle of short-term thoughts and feelings experienced over and over again. Attitudes are shortened states of being. If you string a series of attitudes together, you create a belief.

Beliefs are more elongated states of being and tend to become subconscious. When you add beliefs together, you create a perception. Your perceptions have everything to do with the choices you make, the behaviours you exhibit, the relationship you chose, and the realities you create.”
– Joe Dispenza, You Are The Placebo: Making Your Mind Matter

 

Developing an attitude of gratitude is an ongoing daily practice. The power and practice of gratitude has been passed through thousands and thousands of years of life through many cultures, through most indigenous traditions and through religions including Christianity, Judaisim, Buddhism, Shinto, Islam, Hiduisum, which all have gratitude at the core of their teachings.

 

Acting in gratitude means making a conscious effort and habit to express thankfulness for your life and the things within it. 

 

Through gratitude, thankfulness & compassion we find our way to a lighter, happier life.  To be grateful, is to be intentional about your attitude and your perspectives. Living an authentic life is a huge part of being able to be grateful, knowing that we are confidently standing in our truth and the choices we make every day to make up what our lives consist of.  To be able to be thankful for the people in our lives and what they bring, to be grateful & compassionate for how we feel about ourselves when we wake up in the morning, when we are trigger, when we look at our bodies, when we move through any experience that presents itself. Our ability to show up within those experiences are hugely determined by our level of gratitude to what we have within our lives.

Patanjali’s 8 Limb Pathway in our lives. Many of the Yamas and Niyamas stem from a practice of gratitude and letting go of the ego, especially Santosha – contentment, which is the active practice of gratitude and appreciation for what is (check out one of our oldest and loveliest challenges within ‘The Practice’, the Chakra Series for more on this). This means of letting go, of striving for what you don’t have and accepting with joy what you do have now.  How fitting for just leaving a month themed all around letting go and letting go of emotional baggage.

 

For many of us, thinking through the lens of gratitude and living through the heart space isn’t always our first inclination – often, it’s the opposite, and this is where a PRACTICE comes into play. Like anything you consistently practice and put your energy into, it will flourish and this is no different. You only need to start small and build on it from here – there is no ‘end point’ for practising gratitude, just like there is no end point in our Asana practice, it is something to weave into who we are every day so that it eventually becomes our default setting, our way of thinking and being.  The practice of being intentionally mindful of how we integrate Gratitude into our daily rituals.

 

Some ways of introducing a gratitude practice into your day to day are:

  • Start by observing and noticing what your habitual response is.  Do you approach people with kindness? Patience? Acknowledgment? Do you hold space to listen and absorb in conversations instead of being quick to respond or overlook?
    Acknowledge what role other people play in providing our lives with goodness & steep in the slowness of learning to appreciate each interaction.
  • Daily Gratitude lists! I implemented this into my ritual consistently about 6 months ago and it drastically changed how I began my days – which in turn changed the way the rest of the day played out.  When you begin and end your day with what is GOOD, that’s where your heart and your thoughts lean throughout the rest of your interactions. (I just number a list of 3-5 in my journal and write the first things that pop into my head next to them. It can be as simple as your hot cup of coffee, a co-worker that makes you feel seen, food in your fridge, the fresh air drifting in through the window..)
  • Use meditation as a way of tapping into your gratitude and appreciation for others in your life. Be still & know! Release the expectation of what you think your meditation practice should be like & see what comes up organically.
  • Be aware of how you speak to yourself & others. Bringing us back to point one.
  • Vocalise what you’re grateful for. Introduce a ritual over breakfast or dinner with your family. Go around and ask each person to say what they are grateful for.
  • Lastly, challenges or difficult life experiences can feel hard to be ‘grateful’ for. And I don’t believe there’s a place for gratitude in every single experience. But I do know that they are pockets of light within hard times and we can learn to focus on what is good – even if there is darkness too.

 

Some ways of introducing Gratitude into your yoga practice:

  • Setting an intention at the beginning of your practice. We do this at the beginning of every practice anyways, asking how you are feeling and noticing what is alive for you in this moment.
  • Keep this intention, mantra or affirmation in mind throughout the practice. It could simply be “I am grateful to be on my mat today.”
  • The breath is boss – always! Stay focused on your breath.
  • Don’t skip out on Savasana. This is where we marinate. Where we integrate the practice.  Remember, our bodies hold everything.  Allow this time to reset and absorb.

 

Let’s dive into this months theme on The Soul Practice and learn how we can invite in more joy, compassion & gratitude.

You can find this months playlist here

 

And download our monthly printable calendar for this month’s videos AND suggested Soul Practice flows that align with this month’s theme. You can search for these additional practices on the membership.

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xoxo Kate